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Tuesday, November 25, 2008


It has been a peaceful & happy time all this while untill something upsetted me last night...

I really don't understand what this world has became & why on earth there are such people around?! Out of generosity, passed her all my baby stuffs, like clothes, toys etc... Not as if I begged her to accept my baby stuffs, not as if I insisted her using my baby stuffs... She herself asked from me for the baby stuffs, & now claims that she don't need them at all... & even commented in her blog that my stuffs are old & faulty... I've told her that my stuffs are all yrs ago as Dylan is already 4years old... & they are kept up in the storeroom shelves since Dylan has last used them... Also mentioned that my baby clothes are mostly passed down from my aunty side... I did comment that if she don't mind then she can go ahead to use them...

She said it's fine & alright as she understands the fact the babies grow up fast & will outgrown clothes very soon... As a gesture of courtesy, I offered whatever I have. We did a check together & dumped those really old or stained clothes... Likewise for baby toys... Some of them are battery operated & probably after so many years of non-usage, the toys don't work anymore... Hence, she took those which are in good condition & usable... Not just clothes & toys... stuffs like high chair & walker etc too! She has been using them all this while & have no issue about them... When her baby is abit bigger... she approached me to exchange the younger baby toys for older baby toys... & of course I did help her to exchange the toys...

Untill recently, we had a dispute... nothing to do with baby stuffs or likewise... Then, she returned the whole lot of stuffs back to me... Guess what?! It took me & Elvin hours to pack them back into containers & then into the storeroom shelves. The whole lot of stuffs is unimaginable... to the extend that my neighbour mistaken that we are in the midst of moving house! What a joke?! When she returned the stuffs to me, I certainly felt that it's a very childish & immature act! But that's nothing to be bothered with! What really pissed me off is that she explicitly tell people that the stuffs I offered to her are old & spoilt... & like as if she needed my stuffs... The fact is that she has been using them for like 14 months & now she claimed that she doesn't need them at all in the first place... She has plenty of clothes & toys for her boy! Wow... that really boiled me up! It made others to think that I chucked the stuffs to her & claim credit for it! Worst of all is that as if the stuffs that she has been using are in terrible shape & she's being forced to use them!

On the night when she returned the whole lot of stuffs to me... I realised that she didn't return the potty back to me & I mentioned to Elvin about it... At that time, I already sort of aware why the potty is not returned... Coz' she's toilet training her boy now & subsequently in a month or so... her sister-in-law's child will be taken care by her mother-in-law, in the same house that they are living in... hence they will be getting a potty in the house... So she practically needed the potty for a month or so, thus didn't return it to me together with the whole lot of stuffs. At this moment, I felt totally being taken advantage of! The feeling is like 过河裁桥! So angry & fuming mad! Not to mention the support that I have been giving her ever since the birth of her baby! During her confinement, I knew that she's taking care of her baby on her own & she's a first-time mummy, I often dropped by her house to help out! Although I didn't teach her everything a first-time mummy should know, I at least taught her whatever she wanted to know... When she needed someone to take care of her baby when she needs to attend lesson, I'm there to help... When she's in an argument with her hubby, I'm there to console... When she's in terrible relationship with her mother-in-law, I'm there to give her support... When she fell out with her mum, whom is my mother-in-law, I'm there to be the mediator! It really doesn't matter if she returned the favour to me, as I offered help on my own will! But at least do show some appreciation! I just felt that someone like her is of the "没人情味" breed! & I felt totally idiotic & stupid of me to be taken advantage of! Now that her son is 15 months old... moved back to stay with her parents-in-law... relationship with hubby has been improved... Everything seems on track for her already... I am just given a kick on my butt & asked to get out! Whatever the case is... I don't wish to remember it at all! Not even a single little trivial part of it! I will just take it as a lesson to learn from & never offer help so overtly ever again!

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